We've got the results of two surveys here that are both VERY surprising in their own ways.  Apparently, in one, men decided to BLATANTLY LIE . . . and in the other one, women decided to tell the SHOCKING TRUTH.

--According to a survey by a dating service called Parship, HALF of men say they'd be TURNED OFF if a woman wanted to have sex on the first date . . . because men want to wait longer than that to be intimate

--And according to a survey by a company called FlirtFinder, women were willing to admit they prefer a man who's GOOD LOOKING over a man with a GOOD PERSONALITY.

--Women rated a good body higher than a good sense of humor, a good personality, or even a good job.  The survey didn't ask whether a woman would rather date someone good looking or extremely rich.

(FemaleFirst / MaleExtra)